have you ever been puzzled why someone who is on a not-so-friendly terms with you tiba-tiba bermulut manis? ha! that's one of the signs that person is sucking up on you. senang je kan nak detect? tapi kalau tak dapat nak detect because you are in a different situation, it's okay. here's a few tips you can look out for:
- when the person calls atau masa mula-mula dia nak start cakap tu, he/she sounds weirdly composed. as if dia dah susun ayat on what to say to you.
- the person greets you in a way that gets you flattered all over. though keep note that not all flattery bertujuan untuk suck you up negatively. sometimes it can be harmless.
- the person suddenly offers to run errands for you. okay.. maybe you're thinking that this is a good thing but bear in mind, it can also get nasty especially if memang ada udang di sebalik batu. be cautious.
- the person offers to treat you to lunch or a game of golf or anything else that would win your attention.
actually it all comes down to anything happening out of the norm. and you self conciousness. don't let yourself be fooled by this kind of people.
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